The Itsy Bitsy Spider (yeah, right!)
Story of the day: The Itsy Bitsy Spider (yeah, right!)
I have always been afraid of spiders. Give me a lizard or a snake, and I think I would be better off. My idea of killing them is throwing a shoe at them and then running in the opposite direction just hoping I got it.
There’s something about spiders that sends chills up my spine. I think it stems from a spider that I encountered as a teenager that was carrying it’s egg sack on it’s back. I didn’t realize it at the time, but that little spider was just trying to get all of it’s babies to a safe location. Well, needless to say, I threw my shoe at it from across the room, just like I normally do, and ran as fast as I could in the opposite direction. As I looked back from around the corner, I was lucky in my mission to have hit it, but in doing so, knocked the egg sack off of the spider, which in turn opened the egg sac and all of these little babies came running out of it.
I don’t know what was worse, that I hurt the spider or seeing all of those little babies everywhere. So I did what I normally do, screamed like a girl (oh yeah, I am a girl), and ran in the opposite direction, looking from behind a wall to see if they were all gone.
The task before me was great, because I had hurt this mama spider and her babies. Even though I don’t like spiders, I still don’t want to hurt them. I think that’s why I throw my shoe at them, because I know my aim isn’t great, and I will probably wind up not hitting them all, but it makes me feel better. I wanted to take this moment back, because I didn’t want to hurt that mama and her babies, but I know I did.
Our words are like that shoe that are being thrown at that spider. We either have the ability to hurt someone with them or not. Our words, once they hit, can scatter just like those baby spiders and can do more harm than we intend for them to do. Once they leave our mouth, we don’t know where they will end up and who they can effect.
I encourage you today, to take caution in what you say, and if it is not uplifting to the other person, than do what my mama does best, “don’t say anything at all.”
Quote of the day: Will Rogers
“So live that you wouldn’t be ashamed to sell the family parrot to the town gossip.”
Bible verse of the day: James 3:10
“Out of the same mouth proceed blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not be so.
Prayer:
Dear Heavenly Father,
Thank You that You have given us language. I thank You for the ability to be able to communicate with others. Father, I don’t always use my words wisely, and for that I am sorry. I pray to always use words that are encouraging to others and if they aren’t, then do as my mama does, and “not say anything at all.” Father, guard my heart, protect my mind, and help me to bridle my tongue so that my words don’t scatter in a bad way as to hurt people. I thank You for this day!
In Jesus Name I pray,
Amen